ALBERNI FAMILY MEDIATION &
DIVORCE FINANCIAL ANALYST
DIVORCE: CRISIS and OPPORTUNITY
07/14/2012/in Divorce Information /by admin
This is the chinese symbol wēijī.
In the west, it should be the symbol for Divorce.
It is made up of two characters – Crisis and Opportunity.
Ask anyone who has gone through a divorce – what did it feel like? You will hear things like:
In Divorce, many people find themselves in crisis. Reacting – without having the time to respond. Slow down, take a big breath. Unless there is danger to you or your children (seek help immediately), you can take time to think about what is important to you.
As you go through divorce, most of our clients say it is important to:
In crisis lies the chinese opportunity for growth. As much as Divorce is often initiated by one spouse, both spouses have a role to play in their marriage. Own it. Before you jump into the next phase of your life, take time to reflect on your role in the marriage – what can you learn from the experience.
Divorce is a transition – what will you learn from it?